my husband-to-be must be a big fan of hygiene. not to the point of obsession, but just enough to keep up with me.

i've kinda freaked out some of my fellow vacationers.

"NO SHOES INSIDE HOTEL ROOM!!! :( :( :("

"No food on the bed PLEASE..."

"No worn clothes on the bed please..."

Especially the shoes part.

SO imagine me living permanently with someone who's gonna shoe himself all over the carpet/floor, throw tissues everywhere in the washroom, shave and leave the sink looking as though it sprouted hair as well, eating on the bed that we're gonna share, snot wherever he wants...-

uh-uh, no way. :(

i'll cry i tell you.desperately.

yeah, i guess i expect a lot from my future partner (if God wills that i get hitched anyway) so in return i'll change myself to accommodate what he wants as well.

there's NO, not EVER such a thing as

'the wife's in charge of the house chores and the cooking, as well as the children's discipline and homework.

if i'm earning money for the family as well, which is rather obvious since i'm not going to be a sit-at-home housewife, then he's gonna have to do the dishes, load the washing machine, wash the garage and mop the floor as well.

Oh, i'll very happily take full charge of the dogs. :D and also look after the children's discipline.

note: not children. children's DISCIPLINE.

in my family now, my mother's the one headaching over our school work, tidiness, stuff like that while my father scores brownie points by bringing us out, wasting money on games and toy.

no, that is not going to happen to me. :(

oh, and of course he must be a true Christian and place God before me. if he is, then I guess everything else is taken care of. :D